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ABUSE, what it is, after-effects and HEALING


ABUSE, what it is, after-effects and HEALING

This topic is about ABUSE. How it effects us, physically, mentally, and spiritually? Describing the after-effects and how to heal from them? Forgiveness or not?

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Hi everyone,

I haven't introduced myself to all of you yet so here goes. Hi!! My name is Cathy McMartin and i am the one who started the ABUSE group with the help of Sonja. I am fairly new to the LIGHTGRID site. I learned about it from STAR SEEDS ning site. Syncronicity at it's finest ((smiles)). I am very glad that i found this site and that all of you are a part of it.

I have been studing Metaphysics for about 10 years. I'm pretty sure that I am an Indigo. I used to work as an R.N. but now i do different healing work. I do energy work using Reiki, crystals, light, color, essential oils and ofcourse i work very closely with the spirit realm. I also make jewlery with silver, stones, and mostly quartz crystals. I am aware of my guides, Archangels, and other spirits that work with me hear on Mother Earth. I may be a star seed but i still need to learn more about what they are. I am a writer and hopefully when i get my first book completed i'll be a published author, depending on help from the company of heaven and the law of attraction with that. I know that i am here for a specific purpose and i'm learning to just put one foot in front of the other and flow with spirit in faith, love, and humility.

I started the abuse group at the request of Sonja who has been more than patient and kind to me sinse we first started talking. The topic of abuse is very dear and near to my heart and yes i had been abused severely durring my childhood and many times in my adult life so i know a bit about it. I have worked for about 3 years on an abuse site and other than my own experience that is where i got most of my information.

I am 44 years old. I have 3 children ages 17, 20, and 25. I have a little chinese chin angel dog named Peaches. There is a wonderful healing story that Peaches and i were involved with that i'll share with you all someday. Peaches is where my real healing journey started seriously. I live in California. I was born and raised here but moved to Kansas for about 7 years and just moved back in Sept.of 09. I have a boyfriend named David. If there is anything else that anyone is interested in knowing about me please just ask. Thank you all for allowing me to be a part of your lives.

Light and love,



*Abuse* sister site:

This site and group was created by Cindy and linking these two groups marks the beginning of UNITY and networking on a brand new scale ;-)

ENJOY for HEALING's sake ...

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Comment by Sasha louise Wolsey on January 5, 2018 at 10:23pm

Thankyou so much for sharing your experience with all of us, it takes a lot of courage to do so..  In doing so you have taken that first hardest step to reclaiming back your freedom and self esteem, I truly relate to your story, i  was abused and neglected growing up, truth be known I honestly don't remember very much about my childhood and most of the things I do recall are not nice memories, I will share all in my about me profile, I don't know how long It has been since you went through your ordeal but I do know that as hard and ridiculous a s it sounds you have to make sure you have truly dealt with that pain and you have to be able at somepoint be able to forgive the person that did this to you, unless you do and can you will never be truly free, You don't have to do it in person and you don't have to forget either, sounds nuts I no , (I thought so too) I finally dI'd it last year after being separated from the individual for over 12 years , don't feel like you have to rush this process either, I will share all in my life post thingy..

Please continue taking those baby steps to reclaiming your self.

Love and light and many blessings 

From my heart to yours


Comment by Myriel RAouine on November 7, 2015 at 8:38pm

Dear Catherine, are you still interested in maintaining your group here? 

Please let me know,

LOVE eternal - in SERVICE,

Sonja MYriel

Comment by MARCI KOSICH on June 13, 2011 at 12:15am

Hi my name is Marci

I was emotionally abused from when I was born. I gave up by age 8 and flunked 2nd grade,  I have written a autobiography where it gives names of good books and me and my friends journeys to help ourselves  each other and others, You can find it on my f/b and information about my psychic and healing abilities. I feel for you all. marci

Comment by Myriel RAouine on September 15, 2010 at 9:07am
Thank you, Cindy :-)

I've also opened a group to explore the POWER of the Divine Feminine - here's the link for anyone interested:

Comment by Cindy on September 15, 2010 at 7:11am
Thank you Sonja for the video. I have been looking for an article on the Sacred Feminine and the age of Aquarius that I have not yet found, it use to be in my site. If I come across it I will post it here

Comment by Myriel RAouine on September 14, 2010 at 7:46pm
Comment by Cindy on August 18, 2010 at 10:43am
Hi Catherine I am still here about, have a wonderful week.

Comment by catherine mcmartin on August 16, 2010 at 6:38pm
Just checking in with everyone and hoping that everyone is doing well. Light and love, Cathy
Comment by catherine mcmartin on April 27, 2010 at 8:34pm
Thanks everyone for your support and vital information. I love you all and hope that we are all helping each other the way it is supposed to be. Light and love, CAthy
Comment by Joni on April 27, 2010 at 5:04am
so true cynthia...

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