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What does it mean when people leave you in a less than positive way

Lately I have had to live through letting go of a few people. Well its not that I have had to let go of them and this is something that happens to me alot. I understand that it is just the maladjustment to others and their own lower frequnecies but I don't understand why they lash out in such a manner that could be deemed negative, egotistical or just plain rude and nasty.


Does it mean that these people can't keep up with my ever heightening light frequencies anymore and so have to drop away and move on? Or is it the other way around, they are intentionally dropping me so they can move forward. I feel it is the former as the negativity is instigated on their part and I feel like a  bewildered bystander wondering what really just happened, espcially when it is a good friend you have had for a time that you have shared your hart an soul to and then suddenly they up and do that and leave never contacting you agian, it leaves you feeling so insecure and very hurt.


Yes it makes me sad and I don't get why it happens or how I attract this. I don't like having to say goodbye in this manner to people. Of course positive talking and a mutual goodbye on the same level I am ok with but, like this? definitely not.


Can anyone help me with this? SHed some light on my thoughts and feelings or share their own experiences.

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Comment by Lynette Williams on February 6, 2012 at 9:11am

Welcome to Earth school, but you already knew that was where you were.

There are many saying which we have all heard like  "life is not for the faint heart ".

Every situation we find our selves in is not an accident, there is a reason for it.  

I look at every thing that happens to me as information. I endeavour to be detached so I am able to observe and clearly see without my emotions getting in the way.

When something happpens I use the image of myself putting on my detective hat to understand and explore in an intersted but unemotional way- I find that image works.

As you increase your level of consciousness there will be people in your life who you no longer resonate with and they will also find that you don't resonate with them.  

So many of the people who are in your life and possibly friends who you thought would be there forever may not be.

And resonate is a very good word as there is no need for right and wrong - you simply don't resonate any more.

In times of disagreement, fighting, as you say narstyness, the way to be at peace through these situations  is to act with Love and Wisdom.  This leaves you with feeling amazingly peaceful regardless of how shocking the situation.

So whatever the other person is doing you must always remember it is really about them not you.  Happy people are nice people- it is just aspects of themselvces they need to heal.

Don't take it personally- instead think-- that's interesting= that tells me a lot about how you think and feel.  When people talk - what I hear is not so much the words but the thoughts behind them.

I hope this has been some help.

I know sometimes it's hard, but that's why you have to stand strong, tall wise and loving

Love to you



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