Insight in cruelty - lack of love

[Rhea Dopmeijer]

Insight in Cruelty and the lack of Love

Dear beloved One
You ask me about cruelty.Cruelty is one of the most difficult lessons to understand. It’s almost the direct opposite of Love and tenderness.

Being cruel to anyone, Regardless of age, gender, race,
human or animal kingdom, Is just the opposite tone of joy and pleasure.
Often it is combined with joy and pleasure and power, or the need to overpower anything besides one self, For therein lies the root.

There is no feel of self-love projected outwards
Just to feel there is existence and a purpose
For the soul to be alive and going through
the darkest corners of soul itself.
Suffering can cause this extremity of lack of empathy
and lack of love for oneself and there for every other creature,
Human and Nature: the animal and plant life.

It is a power structure build on hate and anger
And often turned against itself, to not feel the painful memories and experiences. One can choose to be no longer a victim of circumstances and to become the perpetrator of some sort to lash out, without any boundaries at times.

What if I tell you there is also an act of love to be found
In cruelty, inflicted and triggered again deep within themselves
for no specific reason as it might seem at times yet it always comes from the lack of love, which is felt deep within.
No trust, no faith, no hope of some sort that love exists at all.
Therefor there is no love to be found deep within the soul as well.

All the emotions that comes with abuse, fear,
sadness, are turned outward in a lashing act of rage.
Not being or feeling worthy of any kind of love,
Creates an outward reaction to punish,
Instead of being punished to feel power,
Instead of powerless.

Should we not feel their pain and agony?
Should we not care for them and their pain and anguish,
which creates this form of self-destruction?

If you can say I love my enemy
I forgive my enemy
I thank my enemy
I am sorry that there is so much pain within you
And I am You as well.

Maybe not to this extension
Yet are you not also capable of hurting someone else physically, emotionally, mentally and psychicallyto some degree because you also have been in a place of self-lowing, no self-love, of worthlessness, instead of feeling worthy to be alive.

It takes courage, love and perseverance to dive deep within these dark aspects of your soul and bring them to light so they can be forgiven, to be healed again.

Don’t judge a book by its cover, Or like the saying goes: you have to walk a mile in someone’s shoes to know and understand a little bit what Life experiences someone has gone through.
Or from which place actions come from. Don’t pass judgment so easily if you don’t know the whole story behind the reactions or actions.

Not even your Creator passes judgment and
Will always love every spark of Divinity
Which you all are, unconditionally.
Losing your Innocence is far more difficult
To heal by someone who takes innocence,
Then the innocence itself.

And so it is

High Self @RheaDopmeijer ©
Heartfelt Messages, 26-2-2014