The first step to understanding beings from the spirit world is to first realise that, just because someone has passed over doesn't mean that they will automatically become an enlightened being. If they where rude and ignorant during their life in the physical world, then they will more than likely remain the same when they pass over to the spiritual dimensions. Likewise there's places in our own towns and cities that very few of us would visit on our own, or in the middle of the night. So it's important to be discerning in whom it is you make contact with, and how you make that contact. Just as you're intuition tells you to avoid certain people that you come into contact with in your daily life, the same applies when contacting people who have passed over. You do not have to tolerate rude ignorant people in the physical world and the same goes for beings from the spirit world. The secrete is always ask for guidance and protection from the highest and the best. It's also important when working with spirit to keep ones self physically and mentally healthy as this helps build a strong vibrant auric field which is essential in making contact with the higher beings of light.
Contacting the spiritual dimensions is not just for psychics. We can all benefit from contact with our spirit guides, They can inspire creativity, help us to achieve abundance, provide insight and information, protect us or stand by as a close loving friend in our times of need. Our guides do support and help us without our knowledge, but they are limited by how much they can do. It is up to us to raise our awareness and open our minds and hearts to receive the full benefit of their assistance and love.
Your spirit guides will make themselves known in a variety of subtle ways. Guides will always appear in whatever way makes you feel most comfortable.
The most common is through symbols, or touch on various parts of your body for example cobweb sensation brushing across ones face, or a tingle sensation in a particular part of the body. Some may present themselves as animals whilst others through sound colour, fragrance or taste. Some may appear as they once where in their physical life. Guides can be male or female and may or may not give their names.
Working with spirits means, work. Spirit guides aren't there for entertainment, or to impress people. Neither are they to act as a crutch or do everything for you, and it is important not to become too dependent on their advice. Your relationship with your spirit guide is a joint venture. Most advice comes with the option for change, to ones lifestyle, patterns of relating, negative thinking/ behaviour. Like all deeply ingrained habits some are more difficult than others to shift. Working on oneself shifts negative believe patterns and helps raise ones vibrational frequency to a higher level that is more in line with ones true self and the divinity of God. Having said this, don't' feel that you can't ask every day questions as well, your guides are there to help you no matter what you ask. So if you're having problems with a co-worker or finding it difficult to decide on whether to attend a social invitation, ask for advice.
There are many tools that can be used to develop ones psychic ability. Many psychics work with Tarot cards, Runes or Pendulums which can enhance ones intuitive connection. They can be used as a form of communication between the psychics and their guides. As you use these tools you will be drawn close to the spirit guides who are assisting you. As you begin to develop your confidence using these tools your guides will begin to make their presence known to you in a more physical sense. Often the link becomes so strong that many tarot readers only use the cards as a prop, the rest of the information comes via clairvoyance, clairaudiance or Clairknosis (sometimes called clairknowing, which is related to the top of the head and the crown chakra.
Contacting your Spirit Guide Part two
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The most effective way, of contacting your spirit guide, in particular for beginners is through meditation. There is no secrete to meditation, it's simply a process for slowing down mental activity and focusing ones mind on a particular outcome. For example by focusing your attention on improving your health, wealth or creativity, will in time bring about the desired results. Making time for ourselves is not something we find easy in the hustle and bustle of modern living. Developing your psychic ability doesn't require any special religious practice, high moral or saintly values. It's a skill, and like any other skill it can be learnt, all it takes is perseverance and practice. So spending ten to fifteen minutes a day on stilling the mind is beneficial not just in terms of contacting your spirit guides, but for relaxation and getting in touch with that inner peace and calm that most of us have forgotten. The general idea is to make your meditation a special occasion, so find some where that's quite and where you know you won't be disturbed. Most psychics begin by lighting a candle or an incense stick, or if you prefer say a short prayer of gratitude and protection. Dim the lights and disconnect the phone.
Most meditational techniques require visualisation and using your imagination. It's through creative imagination and the use of symbolism that the link is made to the spirit world. The first stage is to get your self grounded, working with sensitive energies can have an effect of drawing our attention away from our day-to-day lives and it's important for all psychics ( learners and advanced ) to keep themselves grounded or connected with the earth. You can do this by visualising beams of energy coming from your feet and base of the spine, imagine these beams of energy passing deep into the earth. Next, imagine drawing green earth energy back up until it fills your body. In a similar way, imagine a beam of white light coming from high above you. As it reaches the top of your head, let it pass through into your body, filling it, until you become a radiant being of light. If you're familiar with chakras . Imagine the base chakra as a red flower with its petals slowly opening. Move up to the second or sacral chakra which is coloured orange and do the same. Then up to the third and so on until you reach the crown chakra (violet).
Meditation is all about drawing our attention from the outer world to the inner. An effective way to increase your awareness of your spirit guides is to create a special place in your mind where you can meet them. Begin by sitting in a comfortable chair, and away from any distractions. When you feel ready, close your eyes and begin taking three or four deep breaths, letting them out slowly, and as you do this, feel all the stress and concerns of the day leave your body with every breath. Next place your attention on your breathing and notice the sinking feeling that you get on each of the out breaths. Use this as a vehicle to allow yourself to let go and relax even more.
As your body begins to feel more relaxed imagine a gate with a path leading from it, there are no people in sight. The path winds its way through a pasture filled with lush green grass and wild flowers. The sky is blue with just a few fluffy white clouds. Imagine wandering along this path soaking in the scenes that are around you. Try and see if you can sense any fragrances or hear the sounds of birds as you walk slowly along this path. Before you, the pasture begins to gradually slop down hill and leads to a wooded area, which you enter. The floor is covered in blue bells and the sun beams through the branches warming your face and body. You next come to a stream, the water looks so inviting that you take off your shoes and socks and step into the stream, as you do so you feel all the stress and stains of the day just pouring out through the souls of your feet into the stream where they are washed away. As you slowly walk up stream you reach the source of the water, where there's a clearing. The grass is lush and the floor is covered in your favourite flowers. In the centre of the clearing there's a small tree with an old wooden bench besides it. You sit down on the bench and enjoy the beauty of this wonderful place.
This is your private space your inner sanctuary, whenever you visit it you feel comfortable and protected, it is a place where the physical and spiritual worlds meet. Remember that you are in control and you can allow or disallow any one from entering it. It is a place that you have created through the power of your imagination. You can change or alter it to suite yourself. Alternatively, you can create a scenario totally different, for example you may choose to climb a mountain and discover a temple at the top.
As you sit quietly you notice a figure approaching who walks slowly towards you. Notice what the person is wearing, is it male or female, old or young. The person asks if they can sit down besides you. At this point you could ask them a question, and also their name. Don't force the answers, let them come naturally and effortlessly. Quite often the answer comes at a later time, or, when you least expect it. So don't become impatient or disheartened if you don't get an answer first time. Finally, as the person gets up to leave they tell you that they have something for you. You open your hand and they place an object on it. The object is personal to you and will have a symbolic meaning, and it's worth pondering the meaning once you've finished your meditation. As your spirit guide leaves you thank them and say goodbye.
You then make your way back the way you came until you reach the gate. As you do so feel yourself returning back into your body and be aware of the room and sounds around you. Lastly, imagine the flower shaped chakras closing their petals, beginning from the base (red) to the crown (violet). When you feel ready and back to full consciousness open your eyes, stretch and take some deep breaths.
It's quite usual for psychics or any one working with subtle energies to follow up by grounding themselves by eating a snack or having a cup of tea and a biscuit. This has the effect of bringing ones consciousness back into physical awareness. Alternatively walking around or doing some light stretching exercise can have the same effect.
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One of the main obstacles in making contact with your spirit guides through meditation is the effect of ones logical mind stepping in and thinking it was all imagination or wishful thinking and not reality. Perseverance and questioning is the key to developing a good sound relationship with your spirit guides. You shouldn't accept everything that your guides say. But it's also interesting to be aware of ones own blind spots, or things that are pointed out to us that we would rather pretend weren't there. For example, our intolerance or refusal to change our point of view in a relationship. Or the need to face up to an issue that may cause disharmony in our lives.
It's not really important as to whether you have a good imagination and can create highly vivid images and scenarios. The image that you create in your mind are representations, it is the intention that counts. The fact that you open up and trust that you where making contact with spirit, is what's important. A lot of psychic communication is based on trust, messages that come through may sound at times ridiculous or silly, but gradually as you become more and more aware of your guides you will begin to trust what they have to say.
It is quite common for psychics to verify the reality of a guide by asking questions that can provide proof of contact. This may mean asking your guide if there is something that you need to be aware of or what is the best way to deal with a particular situation or person. Ask for their assistance during times of change or difficulty, or to present you with opportunities or certain people that you would like to meet. You can also ask messages for friends or relations and check the validity when you next meet them.
The main thing to remember is that this is a joint venture. Your spirit guides will do their bit, but they won't do it all for you, you have to take responsibility for taking action and putting in the hard work. Spirit guides will never interfere with your free will. Manifesting a new car is not a reasonable request, nor winning the lottery. But, asking advice on ways you can best earn enough money to purchase the goods that you would like, is a valid question.
You can also as ask for an indication of your spirit guides presence. For example a physical sensation at a particular time of the day. This may be an involuntary twitch or pins and needles, tingling sensation down the side of your leg or head or the hairs standing up on your arm or leg or a particular area of your head. It is quite common for guides to contact people through dreams. So if you have any questions or would simply like to meet your guides, ask that they show themselves in your dreams. Gradually with perseverance and dedication and last but not least, trusting your intuition, you will be well on your way to developing your psychic powers.