Balance Within Conflict ~

[Myriel RAouine]

Balance Within Conflict ~
 
 Channeled Aug 6,
2010
trinityesoterics
| August 7,
2010


With the accelerated energies
that your planet is moving through (and will continue to move through), many
enlightening human beings are finding it increasingly difficult to hold their
balance as their loved ones act out in the pressure of these times. This can be
a very difficult scenario, indeed, for the enlightening human being who is here
to offer their service and crave nothing more than the energies of peace,
harmony and unity.
Most enlightening human beings
on the planet have grown to the point where they can observe conflict or
tragedy on the world stage without getting drawn into the idea that there is
something wrong. Most are able to hold their balance, to stay in their mastery,
to take the higher viewpoint that would look at the bigger picture. They
understand that while growth can be difficult, it is for the highest good of
the planet and her inhabitants. They understand not to buy into the illusion
and to offer their assistance based on love and a focus on the outcome for the
highest good. While they may be saddened by the suffering that they see, they
are committed to holding the light and assisting the planet in her ascension
process. They may offer love, light, prayer, donations of time or money all
because they are so very committed to the process. By keeping their focus on
the highest outcome, they are serving brilliantly and, indeed, creating
wondrous change.
However, take that enlightening
human being and place them in their home environment where other members of the
family may not be at the same level of growth and evolution and we will see a
very different creature indeed. Many find it difficult to stay in their mastery
and find themselves engaging with their lesser enlightened loved ones in ways
that do not represent their highest operational level. This becomes problematic
because invariably, the enlightening human being will beat themselves up quite
severely for this once the crisis has passed, berating themselves for not
acting “more spiritual”.
In reality, learning to deal
with those in our closest circle is one of the last steps of moving fully into
our mastery. The reason why this may be quite difficult for some is that many
of these relationships began pre-awakening. Often there are old, deeply
entrenched patterns and habits of dealing with each other that are definitely
not in line with the new energies. Many of the human condition will be heard
wailing, “When will my spouse ever get it?” Why won’t my children listen? If
only my parents would just try this new way of doing things, how much better
life would be!
So interestingly, those moving
into mastery may see everything as divinely perfect as they look at planetary
events and in the next breath, find their families quite flawed. Many humans
have assumed far too much responsibility for other people’s actions within
their family unit and seem to always be looking for things to be fixed. This
can become very problematic in many ways.
Each member of your close family
unit has agreed to be part of this amazing process with you. Not every human
being has agreed to move into enlightenment at this time. Perhaps, their
highest service at this time would be showing you what not to be ~ which
interestingly, would still be assisting the planet at this time, would it not?
They may be placed on your path to teach you how to move into your highest
mastery by giving you practice in how to not engage in conflict on a personal
level. They may be teaching you how to detach and allow others to just be who
and where they are. How could you ever move into your mastery without these
wonderful participants?
Sadly, as many begin to focus on
what is wrong with the behavior of their loved ones, not only do they lose
their footing by dipping down into the density and moving into the energies of
anger and frustration, they unwittingly, through their focus, are energetically
supporting more of the same. Then we have an enlightening human being who was
doing quite beautifully before, feeling increasingly worse and worse by trying
to operate in the energies that no longer support
them.
Let us give it to you this way.
Many parents will tell you that the game of wrestling amongst their children
never leads to anything good. What usually happens is it starts out as fun and
games but as the energy conflict continues to accumulate, you will observe it
beginning to escalate. Conflict of any sort will only grow if met with more of
the energy of conflict. In no time the laughter and smiles have dissipated and
before you know it someone will be hurt and there will be tears, frustration
and anger. This is from an escalation of energies that do not honor either
party. Most parents have also observed times when one child wanted to wrestle
and the other child did not. The one who wanted to engage in wrestling may try
several times to draw the other into the activity but when the child sees that
it cannot be done, they will give up. The child who had the interest in acting
out conflict will wander off and find another activity. Again we say that your
children have a lot to teach you!
Dear Ones, do you understand
what we are showing you here? You have a choice. Much like the child could
decide whether he wanted to engage in the energies of conflict or not, you have
a choice. If you refuse to get drawn into the lower energies that some within
your close circle may be struggling with, you will find that the energies will
not escalate more than what is appropriate for the growth of the person
experiencing them. In fact, by not feeding them, the energies will likely
dissipate rather quickly. You need to be aware as the one who is moving into
mastery within your family unit, that you have been anchoring the higher
energies within your home space. Your loved ones have become dependent upon you
holding those energies so that they can experience what they are moving through
and still feel stability. You cannot force them to move into growth they are
not ready for. You cannot fix their discomfort for them but you can create a
safe environment for them to move through their process as is divinely perfect
for them.
If you allow yourself to be
knocked from the center of your calm beingness, you are only exacerbating the
discomfort of those who are already struggling in the energies of the Great
Divide. Again, we say to you, that the greatest power you have is teaching
through example. Those who are still asleep around you have chosen you to be
the master who appears on their path. Honor that very sacred role, Dear Ones.
If you have been able to hold the energy so the planet can move into her
ascension, you easily have the ability to hold the energies among your loved
ones as you are one of the greatest teachers that they will ever meet in this
lifetime. They are also amazing teachers on your path as well. Honor them in
that. There are no special magical tricks. You already have the ability to stay
in your authentic power. If it were not so, the ascension process would not be
happening right now. This is not a matter of learning a new skill. This a
matter of carrying over skills you already have into your interactions with
those in your daily life. Just as you take the higher perspective with the
planet, carry that over to your loved ones. When you are able to do that is
when you will have been able to step fully into your mastery and will begin to
experience heaven on earth. This is all we have for you
today.
Archangel Gabriel through
Shelley Young
Transcribed by Terri DeMarco
trinityesoterics.worldpress.com

[Ana Antaka]

I've been going through this with my husband, who was basically a fundmentalist Christian -- at least in his speaking, but very tolerant of other spiritual beliefs. We are twins which many times has produced the energy to get out of the way, to not engage, to just be there. There is great power in that. Not engaging. And if slip, let go as soon as possible. And he is changing!!

[Myriel RAouine]

Hi Ana Antaka :-)

I always love to read your comments. I see and feel you growing so much! I guess it's not only your twin falme who is changing - LOL!

I AM with you :-)

Blessings of Love and Light to you and your husband,

Sonja Myriel