SPIRITUAL PARENTING

[Ms Tercy Lonan]

SPIRITUAL PARENTING:- To begin with, we must understand that from a Spiritual perspective there is no such thing as children! There are only adult Souls who incarnate into children’s bodies! There is no such thing as a child Soul. They have usually had hundreds of past lives, and hundreds of sets of parents! Secondly, each person chooses their parents! That’s fact! A person’s karma does dictate this to a certain extent, and of course, the availability of parents on Earth, However, you do have a choice in the matter! Thirdly, contrary to people opinion, the Soul does not live in the womb. This is illusion. It has a very deep connection to the fetus, however the Soul does not incarnate into the Physical Body until just right before birth or just after birth! The body is nto the soul! Also, the belief that some people have that children are a blank slate and it is only the parents and environment that cause it to have the personality it has is ludicrous! This is called TABULA RASA! This is illusion. Each Soul coming in has had hundreds of past lives so they have totally formed personalities, however this of course is not to say that parents and environments do not affect the child, for it has a very profound effect! Now, in truth, children when they are born are total victims, and they remain victims most of their childhood. Children do not know how to cause their reality by how they think! They do not know how to cause their emotions and feelings by how they think! They do not know how to protect and shield themselves from the negative thoughts, words, and behaviors of other children or adults for that matter. So in truth, they are at the mercy of their parents, extended family, teachers, peers, and so on, who program them! They are programmed into personality level thinking because our education is completely devoid of any Psychological and or Spiritual education. They are taught to think with their negative ego mind which is called normal. But it is not! Children as they are growing up need parents to be in control and to provide parenting, structure, guidance, and direction. The parents should be the child’s Spiritual teachers! Some parents think children should be allowed to do what they want. This is called spoiling, and will teach the child not to have self-control and Self-Mastery with self! Wish you a beautiful day with love and light to all my Divine Friends. Tercy