Give me the words to speak
Sometimes when I am in a dilemma what to say, or how to respond, I ask my spiritual guides and high self to give me the right words. There are those challenges and experiences I cannot find the right words to say.
It has to do with the way the message will be perceived or is perceived. It’s difficult at times to not respond at all, when you want to shed some clarity in a situation, I am part of creating. Over the years, I have encountered many challenges, when things were said, which didn’t resonate with my inner heart.
When things are being said, that are so far from my truth, it often is about projection. How easy is it to project your own fears, sorrow and anger by turning your inner emotional turmoil around?
Those times you respond in a way that is coming from your inner truth. Not in a way to accuse the other one, nor discriminating them, or disrespecting them. Still the way the responses come with anger and sorrow, all in one. Emotional wounds and turmoil tend to come up in an eruptive way, through words and the way it is been said or written down.
Sometimes caused by the way it is perceived yet not heard, and already jumped to conclusion and defense. We all have been there, at one point or more. Reaction is easier at times as to stay out of the equation. Yet how to stay out of the way the energy has presented itself?
This is not about being at fault, nor to disrespect anyone. Love has many ways to show itself. It is not always the easiest one, when it is hiding behind the pain and hurt caused through lifetimes. Self-love and self-worth are being triggered so easily, when you grow up without it.
How difficult it is, to trust anyone who is at the other end of the perspective. Love is a word, when it is used in a way to feel your self better. Love is not just the way to express the deeper emotions that come with a good positive vibe.
It can come through even in the way the reaction is harsh and filled with sorrow. Love that needs to be expressed in more than one way finds an outlet, not always as positive as we would like it to be.
So, when I had my challenges along the way to express myself, I asked for the words to show the inner true meaning. Not to defend myself, not to explain myself. Because that’s what we tend to do, isn’t it? When we are feeling misunderstood. Or judged, even when it comes in disguise.
Or when you know, what ever you will respond, it will not be heard. Nor understood and accepted. It is no longer a dialogue than, it will always turn out into a discussion. That’s how it usually ends up. I then will step out of the situation itself. It is never a win-win situation, when you are not heard. Words can hurt, even feels as if you get stung by a sword.
So, I ask my High Self, to bring in the words to speak, into my personal self, my own connection that will assist me in the way I may respond with Love and Acceptance. With dignity for both parties, in order to respond without reservation.
Even when the other party is reluctant to listen, I will speak my heart at one point. When I feel from within when the time is right and when the message might be received. Maybe this might never happen, I trust in the way love finds the right words, to express. Against all odds.
Because in the end, within each of us is this particle of light and love, that will understand the wonder of imagination.
Not just a dream we all will connect with each other through our hearts. When the inner world of emotions is at ease and finds peace.
Then clarity will step in, as well the way we perceive. It might be subtle, it might be fierce, it might feel dishonest, as well disrespectful. We all can learn to speak our love through our words to express. It is about the energy those words hold. It is about the way this energy of love and light will be heard and received.
We all can make a difference, when we realize how often we project our own inner turmoil on someone else. Which is more a cry for being seen, heard, understood and most of all, being loved for all that you are
I have taken my time to receive and perceive what is presenting itself in order to connect with the inner core of the messages. Not the words, how profound they may be or seem to be. It’s about the way they are being felt within, the touch of the pain, the sorrow.
Feeling it, yet not owning it, because it isn’t mine. It isn’t about me as such even. A lesson to be learned through time, a powerful message in order to be the empath with all the sensitivity that comes with it. It is challenging as usual.
So, we must be aware and conscious, before we respond in a split second, to let it simmer and ponder about. Only then the words can come freely and from a place of love and understanding.
High Self @RheaDopmeijer ©
Heartfelt Messages, May 6, 2019