You only reach emotional breaking points when forgetting to reach out and ask for help. Gone are the days where you're able to be fooled by your ego’s belief in not wanting to burden others with your problems -- when, in reality, the very issues you invite others to hold space for equally assist in their healing journey as well.
Your sharing doesn’t have to be focused on helping other people, but merely the authentic confession of what you are having a hard time feeling.
When asking for help, you are inviting others to remember their purpose as light workers; to shine their light of unconditional love just by helping you remember that you aren’t alone in your journey or experiences.
Even if others seem unwilling to give you the support you desire, just by taking the time to ask for what you need, you will feel more supported through your asking -- even if the ego gets bruised by moments of rejection. Far worse than asking for help that others cannot provide at that time, is bottling up your emotions and/or hiding from them.
As more of our Earth plane fills with the energy of Unity Consciousness, you will be able to live in a world where the deep matters of emotional processing can be shared openly and genuinely. If it seems as if no one can hold such space for you, call upon the Universe to reveal the ways in which it is always conspiring in your favor. You can use the following mantra each morning and night to establish a conscious connection with Source:
“I call upon my angels, spirit guides, the Universe, and my Higher Self to reveal how I am divinely guided, and to provide me with the greater support I desire now.”
Perhaps such a mantra feels soothing, nourishing, and enlivening because it energetically activates the remembrance that, while you seem to be a person dwelling in a Universe, it is the Universe that dwells in you.
Whether such a realization has occurred, or continues to open within you, it is important to remember: while it all dwells within you, you cannot do it all yourself! If that were the case, no one else would have the beauty of discovering the power of his or her unique contribution. Whether you believe anyone in your life is able to hold space to not, you will always feel more connected whenever you ask. You can always let the other person know: “I don’t need help, I just need to be heard. Can you please just listen and witness the words I need to get out of my system?”
May you be proud of yourself for requesting the help you need, while also developing compassion for others who are learning how to help-- in whatever ways they are (or are not) able to be there for you.
Whether this renews sparks in relationships by allowing partners to feel more heroic through invitations to be helpful, or guides you inward to establish a more conscious communion with your inner guidance, the Universe wants you to know how profoundly the world can heal when you open up and share vulnerably with others. All too often, it is your willingness to be vulnerable first that makes it safe for others to step outside their defense mechanisms which, in turn, allows you to feel safer to openly engage and share.
As always, the power of love is always within you, moving you towards greater frontiers of expanded reality, whether you see them on the horizon or not.
All for light. All for life. All for love.