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ABUSE, what it is, after-effects and HEALING


ABUSE, what it is, after-effects and HEALING

This topic is about ABUSE. How it effects us, physically, mentally, and spiritually? Describing the after-effects and how to heal from them? Forgiveness or not?

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Hi everyone,

I haven't introduced myself to all of you yet so here goes. Hi!! My name is Cathy McMartin and i am the one who started the ABUSE group with the help of Sonja. I am fairly new to the LIGHTGRID site. I learned about it from STAR SEEDS ning site. Syncronicity at it's finest ((smiles)). I am very glad that i found this site and that all of you are a part of it.

I have been studing Metaphysics for about 10 years. I'm pretty sure that I am an Indigo. I used to work as an R.N. but now i do different healing work. I do energy work using Reiki, crystals, light, color, essential oils and ofcourse i work very closely with the spirit realm. I also make jewlery with silver, stones, and mostly quartz crystals. I am aware of my guides, Archangels, and other spirits that work with me hear on Mother Earth. I may be a star seed but i still need to learn more about what they are. I am a writer and hopefully when i get my first book completed i'll be a published author, depending on help from the company of heaven and the law of attraction with that. I know that i am here for a specific purpose and i'm learning to just put one foot in front of the other and flow with spirit in faith, love, and humility.

I started the abuse group at the request of Sonja who has been more than patient and kind to me sinse we first started talking. The topic of abuse is very dear and near to my heart and yes i had been abused severely durring my childhood and many times in my adult life so i know a bit about it. I have worked for about 3 years on an abuse site and other than my own experience that is where i got most of my information.

I am 44 years old. I have 3 children ages 17, 20, and 25. I have a little chinese chin angel dog named Peaches. There is a wonderful healing story that Peaches and i were involved with that i'll share with you all someday. Peaches is where my real healing journey started seriously. I live in California. I was born and raised here but moved to Kansas for about 7 years and just moved back in Sept.of 09. I have a boyfriend named David. If there is anything else that anyone is interested in knowing about me please just ask. Thank you all for allowing me to be a part of your lives.

Light and love,



*Abuse* sister site:

This site and group was created by Cindy and linking these two groups marks the beginning of UNITY and networking on a brand new scale ;-)

ENJOY for HEALING's sake ...

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Comment by Myriel RAouine on April 5, 2010 at 7:35pm
Oakbridge University - Jeshua Online Message of the Day

Beloved one, take another deep breath and ask, "How would I like to see changes in the world? How can I see the world differently? What changes would I like to see happen? How would it feel? Where did it start to make a change like that? Can I be part of that? Am I already a part of that?" And you are.
Comment by Joni on April 5, 2010 at 5:00pm
your welcome sonja :)
blessings your way my sweet sister!
Comment by Myriel RAouine on April 5, 2010 at 4:58pm
It's great that you are working together, Cindy and Cathy! And thank you for your great discussions, joni :-)

Comment by catherine mcmartin on April 5, 2010 at 8:01am
I hope that everyone had a good Easter. I am so looking forward to more discussion here. This site is a blessing to me. Cindy, i think the that anything that we, you, me, can bring to the table on this subject the better. So even just your participation is so helpful but anything that you have to share is much appreciated. Thanks Joni for your participation too. As sonja said in an ealier post " this subject matter is very vast" so we have alot to talk about. I certainly beleive in divine timing so here we are by no coincidence. Talk to everyone soon and i wish everyone a great week. Light and love, Cathy
Comment by Cindy on April 5, 2010 at 1:44am
Certainly my only desire is to help in what ever ways I can. If there is anything you feel could be of help her eon this group you have created please just let m know. That is what networking is about.

Comment by Joni on April 5, 2010 at 1:39am
you are absolutely correct catherine :)
Comment by catherine mcmartin on April 5, 2010 at 1:28am
Oh yeah Cindy,
I would love to check out your website!!! Thanks.. ((smiles)), Light and love, Cathy
Comment by catherine mcmartin on April 5, 2010 at 1:13am
Dearest Cindy, Joni, and Sonja,
Thank you all for your support here. Joni, you are right this subject is totally in the flow of spirit. The energy of the planet is changeing, growing, and raising to help us deal with all the purging of emotional negative energy that is taking place right now. The last several full moons were intense with purging and cleansing energy. Our guides, angels, the universe and other helpers are sending lots of strength our way so we won't be afraid to speak our truths, so we will feel safe, and encouraged. Telling ones story is helpful in releasing some of the negative energy trapped inside of ourselves after abuse. Then we usually get a boost of positive energy after we speak our truths/ tell our stories because it usually helps someone else in the process. Sonja, Thank you for taking the time to put together your site and allowing us to speak openly and honestly in the groups here. Looking forward to more discussion. Happy Easter to everyone. Light and love, Cathy
Comment by Joni on April 4, 2010 at 11:35pm
Comment by Cindy on April 4, 2010 at 11:23pm
Speaking of synchronicity, this is the second website in the past couple of months where this subject was brought up. I have a group on this topic in my own website as well as an accounting of my own personal experience.

I have been through the physical and mental abuse experience in my past from the time I became a young adult living on my own.

My life was a string of abusive relationships until I finally just woke up at one point and had to really take a good look at my life and take a thorough inventory as to the why it was the way it was. Which meant taking a good look into my past experiences.

I knew I needed to go back back and revisit in my mind the places I never hoped or wanted to ever see again in reality or otherwise. If I was to heal the wounds then I needed to address those wounds.

I relived them then dealt with them then let go and let God. The hardest part was to come to terms with it and forgive myself first, then forgive those who had offended. Or in this case the offense being physically and mentally abused.

I have told my story many times over on boards such as this, so shy, ashamed or afraid to share I am not. Each time is like a cleansing especially if it helps another.



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