The Power of Love ~ Every Encounter Teaches us Something

[ayana]

 Sometimes you meet people that inspire you and have such a great impact on you without even knowing it, just through their way of being in their everyday life. They can totally transform you, by bringing out the best of you.

Last month I had been reading particularly about unconditional Love, what it is, how to feel it more. It’s really hard to be able to love even those who hurt you or hurt others, to forgive. It’s something really hard sometimes for me, as I am a very sensitive person and can not stand injustice. I am often tempted to hate on for example people that torture innocent animals. I just can’t stand this idea and have murder compulsions myself! (on them). But I understand more and more why responding with the same violence as the people who do bad is useless and also harmful.

I understand that this is not with anger that you can fight anger. This is not with hate that you can fight hate. This is not with meanness that you can fight meanness. Only Love can change the situation.

Be careful, “love” doesn't mean you have to become a doormat, and not defend yourself. It means to not be drown to that same low level of vibration where our “aggressor” is. If a person is angry at you, (because HE has a problem), then why would you want to jump into that anger and suffer too? negative emotions are Hell, and we really can not do or say anything useful (for you or anybody else) from this place. You suffer and you don’t solve the problem.

If, instead, your attitude demonstrates peace of mind, serenity, trust in yourself, ability to control yourself, understanding, kindness, don’t you think it’s a way greater impact you will leave on the person? Way greater than anything you could have said under the emotion of anger or hate. (I know it’s not always easy though, but it’s important to understand this).

I was reading more and more about this and practicing it more and more in my life, when I met the mother of the man that shares my life. It’s like if all my books transformed into one person and became HER. She’s like LOVE reincarnated. I just have to watch her speak, act, think, to understand what unconditional love is, how is it when you have no ego anymore, and to understand that the most important thing is never to be right, but to be kind.

I am very lucky to be able to spend a lot of time with her when I’m in Paris, and she came to visit us for 3 weeks, now that we are in LA. She’s with us right now, and without knowing it, she’s one of my biggest teachers.

His son suffers from a heavy illness called muscular dystrophy (Duchenne) and is in a wheelchair, unable to move any part of his body besides his fingers. She volunteers for various associations and basically devotes her whole Life to others. Her attitude towards life, her kind words, her actions, her consistent smile despite all the really hard conditions she’s living, is a true source of inspiration to me and to everybody that meets her. I sincerely believe she transforms everybody that crosses her road, without even knowing it. She always focuses on the good in others, never the bad; and by doing that, people give her more of what’s good in them. By focusing on the bad, the contrary happens, more of what you don’t like is given to you. She’s able to love unconditionally, each and every one, regardless of their nationality, ethnicity, religion, age, physique or attitude. She taught me that being kind is a huge strength and not a weakness. That it is safe to be kind, and not dangerous like we often think. In fact, she puts so much trust and gives so much kindness to people that they feel they have to honor it, even if at first they may have been not so well-meaning people. She believes in those values, and she will never change, no matter how others act.

Sometimes, I wish she could think about herself more. But I don’t think I will ever be able to change her :).

She honestly transforms every body that meets her, and she shows me how much of an impact we can have on others, and consequently, on the world. What she is, had an impact on me, which I will pass on to others, who will pass it on to others too. That’s the butterfly effect. That’s why everything that we say and do has a direct consequence to the world. We are all responsible for the impact we leave to the world. There is always somebody that hears or sees you and that will be touched or influenced by your negative or positive attitude and words. It’s up to you to decide which butterfly effect you want to create on earth.

The power of Love is Huge. I understand it more and more. It’s a real work to make on yourself, specially if you have not been raised like this, or if you’ve been raised in fear of others or of the world. Society makes everything possible to keep us in that state of fear, through TV, movies, news, magazines… it’s crazy. So it’s really up to us to build a new vision and a new world for us and for everybody through our everyday actions, thoughts and words, and through each one of our next encounters.

Now I want you to ask yourself some questions: How do you interact with others? Would you honestly like to be your friend? What could you improve? Which impact do you live on others and on the planet? Which butterfly effect do you trigger?

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